Am back!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!

Hi Guys.........been long since i blogged...You know there are certain things tht dont remain constant in life!!! When you are a kid, u wanna play .When u r in college, u wanna have fun. When ur in Job , u wanna hav more money.....But there r some things tht do remain constant in life!! No matter how many kids u have, the love for all the kids will remain same..No matter wht u do, ur parents will still love u.....Everyone needs to reflect...Reflect on the life gone by... Am i reciprocating the love and care tht my parents and family members show towards me? If not in wht way can i show them tht i really love them..There are certain traits in each persons life. Some of them will be good, some bad. I had a very strange and peculiar one....I never expressed to express or to impress. The feelings are there but couldnt express. Maybe its beacuse of the way i was brought up....I used to be lonely at home coz both my parents were working. I was never emotionally close or attached to anyone. It has never been a problem for me as i look at it but i guess it is a problem when looked from other people's prespective. I guess i need to be more expressive . Show people around me that i do care. I should express to express rather than to impress.
When someone is not having friends who last long. Has he looked wht is the possible reason for tht?? What is wrong in me , that people dont like??
Most relationships fail if there is ego,inferiority complex and resistance to accept another person even if they have minuses. If your friend has a minus, try to advice him abt it .If not ignore it, so that the pluses tht is associated with him isnt lost forever. It is not tht easy to get friends who are really genuine. It is very easy to lose genuine friends too.
A person who is really interested to have a happy life must shed anger,ego, inferiority complex . I have seen many people cribbing about getting married . They say we will lose our freedom once we get married. But its just a lie to hide the true fact that they are not willing to compromise on their habits. Some Bachelors who are now into their 50's will say that they have enjoyed their freedom and have lived life to the fullest. But they are lying. Deep down in their heart, they feel lonely and aloof. They do miss life. They want support but cannot ask anyone for it. But what makes them say that they are happy. Its their ego. They do not want to admit that they did not enjoy life.But what is there in life, without facing the music . There should be some risks, thrills, joys and sorrows.
A person who acts in anger does it without thinking of the consequences. They will take a lot of time to think of their actions and its repurcussions. Sometimes years. But who is responsible for the consequences?? There will definitely be a time when they feel yes, i was wrong. But then the ego prevents them from seeking help.
All problems have a solution . Communicate. If you have a problem, tell it to your parents,siblings or your close friends and try to find a solution for it. You will get a genuine answer from them coz you are the world for them. There is no point trying to put the blame on anyone. My life is mine. If i have to be happy, i have to act responsibly and have clear thought and vision.
Remember one more thing, life is really short. Enjoy it and be happy instead of cribbing for silly issues. Parents are getting older, they did everything to see you happy. There is no point crying after everything is lost!!!
Today is February 14...This is not the sort of blog that i shud be writing....Hope is always there!!! Am sure , this day, next year will be a different one altogether!!!!